You didn’t fall in love to feel like strangers.
Everyday stress, silence, and unresolved tension can slowly pull couples apart.
But rebuilding emotional closeness can begin with something as simple as asking the right questions.
Download the free Gottman Love Maps Questionnaire — your first step back to connection.
Hi I'm Simon,
If your relationship feels distant, disconnected, or just a little off lately — you’re not alone.
Maybe you’re tired of surface-level conversations.
Maybe the emotional intimacy you once had has faded.
Or maybe you’re just not sure how to bridge the growing gap between you and your partner.
The good news?
You can start reconnecting today — one question at a time.
As a couples therapist with over 13 years of experience, I’ve helped hundreds of partners rediscover each other through practical, science-backed tools that actually work. One of my favorite starting points?
The Love Maps Questionnaire — from The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Dr. John Gottman.
What Is the Love Maps Questionnaire?
The Love Map is Gottman’s term for how well you really know your partner — their inner world, hopes, stresses, dreams, and more.
This free downloadable questionnaire includes a series of engaging and meaningful questions to help couples:
Rebuild emotional intimacy through conversation
Deepen understanding of each other’s inner world
Spark deeper, more connected dialogue
Discover things you didn’t realize you didn’t know
Whether you’re feeling miles apart or just want to deepen the bond you already have, this guide can be your first intentional step back to closeness.
What You’ll Get:
A copy of the Love Maps Questionnaire
60+ engaging questions across multiple areas of your partner’s life
Tips on how to use the questionnaire to spark connection
Conversation prompts to turn questions into real moments of understanding
A tool straight from the world-renowned Gottman Method — trusted by millions
Why This Matters:
Research shows that deep friendship is the foundation of lasting love.
The more you understand your partner’s inner world, the stronger your relationship becomes — especially during hard times.
And it starts here.
Why Trust This Resource?
13+ years in relationship and trauma counseling
Gottman Method Level 3 Trained
Inclusive, safe, and non-judgmental support
Hundreds of couples served through evidence-based therapy